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What is somatic based healing?
What is somatic based healing?
Meet Your Expert Love Coach Vanessa

This is for the woman who wants to finally call in her embodied masculine King…

 

To surrender into his arms.

To trust him with all of her.

To feel he can hold all of her.

And to finally feel taken care of, safe and cherished.

What if I told you that there is a secret to inspiring masculine devotional love. And that you already have it within you. It is none other than your Radiance and Magnetism as a feminine woman.

 

Radiant women know the secret to being adored for life by devotional masculine men.

They effortlessly trigger masculine devotional love and lifetime commitment, just by being their true radiant self as a woman.

When a woman knows how to embody her radiance and magnetism with men, men all around her feel compelled to step up for her, to lead the relationship, to offer her the very best he can provide, to protect, to support her, to cherish her heart and feelings, and treat her like the beautiful most sacred gift in his life.

Let me ask you this...?


✔️Do you watch amazing men fully commit to women who seem to have it easy in love, but you meet men who say they have no idea what they want and never seem to powerfully lead the relationship with you towards real commitment?

✔️Do you struggle feeling insecure & anxious and often make a man responsible for all of your needs very early on in the dating process?

✔️ Do you tend to becoming controlling and pressure men to commit (not understanding how men fall in love) and they pull away?

✔️ Do you often feel like ALL men are emotionally unavailable & just looking for sex…?

✔️ Have you been stuck in a pattern of attracting men with narcissistic traits despite years of inner work and therapy…?

✔️ Have you experienced past betrayal and feel that men can’t be trusted… ?

✔️ Do you wish you could melt the walls around your heart and allow yourself to truly open to love…?

✔️ Do you struggle to be vulnerable, as soon as the emotional intimacy begins to deepen you become guarded…?

✔️ Do you struggle to have boundaries and often find you don't uphold your own standards while dating or don't even know what those should be?

✔️Do you struggle with low self worth and not feeling good enough for the men you really like...?

✔️ Do you date someone for a month or two, and just when you start to get excited he disappears, ghosts, or it ends abruptly...?

✔️ Does dating feels exhausting and like another chore, rather than something that gives to your feminine and makes you feel filled up and desirable...?

✔️Do you long to feel safe, held and committed to by a strong, powerful, masculine man, and yet have no idea how to attract this caliber of man or this level of commitment?

 

The problem isn't that you need to FIX yourself... or even become more feminine.

 

Feminine is who you are as a being who identifies with a primary feminine sexual essence.

 

We don't need you to become more feminine. We need to peel back all of the false protective layers and armor that you have built up around your heart that has been blocking your innate feminine from emerging.

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I was there. BIG TIME.

💕 I was once engaged to a man who let me wear the pants in the relationship.

💕 I constantly had to be in control in the relationship…

💕 If I did attract a man I was deeply attracted to, without fail he was always avoidant or emotionally unavailable…

💕 I thought I needed to look perfect to get love, and put so much focus on external things while ignoring the real inner emotional work I needed to do to relax into my feminine…

💕 And dating felt like a nightmare because it would trigger me so much as it brought up all of my unmet emotional needs and anxious / avoidant attachment style…

💕 I had a lot of anger towards men that I hadn’t processed (hello unhealed daddy wound) and I fundamentally didn’t trust men… I was often subtly emasculating them by telling them how to be a man. And repeatedly repelling men who were in their King energy…

I didn’t know how to be vulnerable because I was still secretly terrified of intimacy and allowing myself to be fully seen in love.

I didn't realize it at the time but intimacy brought up all of the unconscious fears of being hurt yet again in love as I felt as a child with an emotionally shut down and verbally abusive father…

I was in a state of constant relentless self-critique, never feeling enough for the kind of man I truly desired…

I was there. BIG TIME.

💕 I was once engaged to a man who let me wear the pants in the relationship.

💕 I constantly had to be in control to manage the feelings I didn’t know how to be with and process…

💕 And if I am being honest, the sexual attraction was never fully there because I wasn’t with a man truly at my level, because those men triggered all of my insecurities…

💕 If I did attract a man I was deeply attracted to, without fail he was always avoidant or emotionally unavailable…

💕 I thought I needed to look perfect to get love, and put so much focus on external things while ignoring the real inner emotional work I needed to do to relax into my feminine…

💕 And dating felt like a nightmare because it would trigger me so much as it brought up all of my unmet emotional needs and anxious / avoidant attachment style…

💕 I had a lot of anger towards men that I hadn’t processed and I fundamentally didn’t trust men… I was often subtly emasculating them, telling them how to be a man. And repeatedly repelling men who were in their King energy…

I didn’t know how to be vulnerable because I was still secretly terrified of intimacy and allowing myself to be fully seen in love.

I didn't realize it at the time but intimacy brought up all of the unconscious fears of being hurt yet again in love as I felt as a child with an emotionally shut down and verbally abusive father…

I was in a state of constant relentless self-critique, never feeling enough for the kind of man I truly desired…

This program is how I made my way out.

I finally learned to come home to safety in my body as I had been operating out of survival mode from growing up in a household with constant fighting...


I healed the "love crack" moments on my life timeline which supported me in re-writing my love blueprint, healing my underlying abandonment wound, becoming Securely Attached and becoming more emotionally available to myself so I could start attracting men who could hold space for my inner world and were emotionally available...

I learned powerful somatic and breath-work tools to release stuck emotional trauma, turn my inner witness back on (which went dormant from a childhood of chronic emotional neglect) so I could start identifying my needs and learn how to meet them rather than my go-to in relationships which had been to make a man responsible for all of my feelings and unmet needs (very shadow feminine).

And finally leaned what it means to embody healthy boundaries (one huge key to sustaining healthy, juicy polarity 🫦👑💦with a man and through which a man will experience you as a true high value woman)...

I learned how to finally start feeling my feelings, process my emotions, and to communicate from a place of healthy vulnerability that inspires men to step up for me…

And I learned everything there is to know about understanding what it takes to become a woman embodied in her healthy feminine energy and how to maintain healthy polarity in a relationship…

In short this program is the culmination of my decades of healing, which took me up to the present age of 39 to figure out! This is your fast track to healing so you don’t have to take as long as it took me to figure it all out…

I can't wait to share all of my knowledge with you and turn you into the ultimate Goddess Queen!

What if this could be you?

  • You begin to truly experience that there is an abundance of good men in the world 
  • You feel like men yearn to see all of you and can hold all of you
  • You begin to embody healthy boundaries as a way of being and effortlessly start to attract higher quality men…
  • You feel completely worthy of being chosen on the inside and are no longer stuck in patterns of longing for men who cannot fully meet your heart or needs…
  • It finally feels safe to be vulnerable and open your heart with a man as the emotional intimacy deepens… 
  • You attract men who can hold space for your inner world and love your vulnerability..
  • You start attracting men who are also looking for their life partner and tell you this from the first date, attracting men who are emotionally open and vulnerable becomes your new norm…
  • You know that it is your sacred responsibility to speak your needs so that the masculine can step up for you, and you now feel safe to do so…
  • You relish in surrendering into your feminine, letting go of control and allowing strong masculine men to take the lead…
  • You feel so deliciously worthy of men who are at your level (no more dating down) and these men start showing up in your life…

The TESTIMONIALS speak for themselves....

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Introducing

 THE EMBODIED FEMININE WOMAN

A journey with Vanessa to heal your heart, your feminine energy, rise like the phoenix that you are, and quantum leap into love.

COURSE REVIEW

A 4 Month Live Group Coaching Experience 

12 potent on-demand modules with video content, workbooks, and guided embodiment exercises plus 1 Live Coaching call per week (12 total) and a bonus 4 weeks of support inside Magnetic Dating Lab. The 12 modules will be dripped out over the duration of the course so you can more deeply integrate the work. 

What you will learn...


☑️ Free yourself from generational trauma that keeps repeatedly playing out in your love life…

☑️ Heal from the narcissistic mother / father wound…

☑️ Learn how to re-write your subconscious inner love blueprint so you can finally say goodbye to emotionally unavailable men...

☑️ Understand your nervous system and how to return to safety in your body, so you stop attract unhealthy love...

☑️ Understand what codependency / love addiction is, how it shows up in relationships and how to heal it...

☑️ Learn what your healthy boundaries really look like while dating and how they support you in maintaining polarity with masculine men...

☑️ Learn what your vulnerability during conflict looks like and how to communicate in a way that inspires him to step up for you rather than him shutting down and pulling away...

☑️ Understand what feminine communication with men looks like and the power it has to unlock a man’s provider / protector instinct and inspire him to take action to move things forward with you…

☑️ Learn the real tangible tools of how to use your integrated masculine energy to support you in learning to date from your feminine energy and more!

☑️ Deeply understand the male psyche and masculine commitment process..

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What’s Included?


16 WEEK-PROGRAM -  12 LIVE GROUP COACHING CALLS

(1 call per  week for the first 3 months, plus a bonus 4 weeks of support inside Magnetic Dating Lab)
Each live call with Vanessa will be up to 90 minutes and take you into deeper integration and embodiment of the work. The call is where Vanessa will support you in going deeper on your healing journey so you fully transform from the inside out. 

Call schedule: 

(You will pick ONE call to attend weekly, this will be your cohort for the entire program, not transferable)

Monday at 5pm PST / 8pm EST,

Tuesday at 10am PST / 7pm European Central Time

&

Wednesday at 3pm PST / 5pm CST / 6pm EST

12 potent modules to transform you from the inside out, heal the mother / father wound, re-write your inner love blueprint to start attracting emotional available men, heal your attachment style, understand the Nervous System and how unresolved trauma shows up in the body, understand Codependency, what it is? how it shows up in dating and relationships and how to finally heal? Learn what your healthy Boundaries really look like and how they help sustain hot juicy polarity with masculine men, master the art of feminine communication to inspire his provider instinct and get him to step up and lead, learn what feminine vulnerability during conflict really looks like to inspire his inner hero who wants to protect you rather than your old patterns of men shutting down and pulling away when you are upset, learn the real tangible tools of how to date from your feminine, and more!

1-90 MINUTE LIVE BREATHWORK 
for trauma release to access your deepest emotional wounds and finally set yourself free (call will be recorded if you cannot attend live)

1-90 MINUTE ON-DEMAND BREATHWORK
for calling in aligned love

1-DEEP IMAGINING PROCESS
to dissolve your blocks to Receiving and finally start calling in generous abundant men who desire to GIVE to you! Can I get an Amen! C

1-DEEP IMAGINING PROCESS
to dissolve body shame and finally step into radical self love

4-SELF EXPLORATION WORKBOOKS
to go even deeper into the work

A TOOL BOX
of somatic regulating tools that you can continue to use

A MODERATED ONLINE COMMUNITY
to connect with other amazing women in cohort.

Have questions? DM me on Instagram!

What is SOMATIC based healing?

Somatic based healing uses a body centered approach to release stuck emotional trauma in the body. This can be "little t trauma" events as well, like from a parent's divorce or having witnessed parents fighting as a child -- which all stay in our body as stuck survival response and manifest as Fears of Intimacy in dating. 

We will be working with both an understanding of your nervous system and your protective parts which have been keeping you stuck from going toward the intimacy you desire and blocking your feminine energy from emerging.

As you learn to renegotiate safety in the body and re-parent your protective parts, it begins to feel safe to go towards the things that your heart desires (like intimacy), being seen, or opening up vulnerably and sharing your feelings, but which perhaps were not safe in the past.

And as this protective armor begins to soften, your radiant feminine energy begins to re-emerge with men...

The protective parts that are keeping you stuck, unable to be vulnerable, pushing love away, hypervigilant of abandonment, unable to speak up for your needs, compulsively over-working for love, or going into patterns of control with men, don’t speak a cognitive language. That’s why if you have ever tried to talk yourself out of an experience it hasn’t worked, the patterns keep repeating.

The key to coming home to your feminine in your relationships, feeling safe to be vulnerable in intimacy, using your voice, having the dream love you desire (no longer dating down), is SHOWING not telling your protective parts you’re safe to have these things.

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What is SOMANTIC based healing?

Somatic based healing uses a body centered approach to release stored trauma. Trauma is psycho-somatic, meaning it has both an emotional / psychological component and is also a stuck survival response in the body. In order to fully heal we need to address both.

We will be working with both an understanding of your nervous system and your protective parts (different ages of your inner child that are correlated with the dysregulation that shows up in your body) which have been keeping you stuck from going toward the intimacy you desire.

As you learn to renegotiate safety in the body and re-parent your protective parts, it begins to feel safe to go towards the things that your heart desires (like intimacy), being seen, or speaking up for your needs, but which perhaps were not safe in the past.

The protective parts that are keeping you stuck, unable to be vulnerable, pushing love away, hypervigilant of abandonment, unable to speak up for your needs, compulsively over-working for love, or going into patterns of control with men, don’t speak a cognitive language. That’s why if you have ever tried to talk yourself out of an experience it hasn’t worked, the patterns keep repeating.

The key to coming home to your feminine in your relationships, feeling safe to be vulnerable in intimacy, using your voice, having the dream love you desire (no longer dating down), is SHOWING not telling your protective parts you’re safe to have these things.

Yes! I’m soo ready for change. I want it All NOW please (PIF)
Yes! I’m soo ready for change. I like it slower please (Installments)

About your Expert Love Coach

Vanessa Nance is a trauma informed relationship and intimacy expert with graduate level training in Clinical Psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute in Santa Barbara, California with a Bachelor of Arts from UC Berkeley. 

Vanessa has committed to extensive personal work to overcome her own childhood trauma and brings a wealth of experiential knowledge to her clients – it is often said that a practitioner can only take their clients as deeply as they have gone themselves, and Vanessa has gone into the depths of her own shadow and generational trauma work.

Vanessa has coached female entrepreneurs, Fortune-500 technology executives, top female real estate agents, lawyers, stay-at-home moms and more.

She has personally helped hundreds of these women go from single to soulmate bliss and feel a deeper connection to themselves and their feminine energy than ever before.

Most feminine energy courses will teach you that feminine embodiment means doing a womb healing session and dancing, while that might be fun (and maybe something to do to amplify your feminine once you've done real healing work), it's not going to shift the needle and get you tangible results in how you relate in your romantic relationships and the type of men you attract... Vanessa knows what real inner work looks like and takes because she has had to walk this path herself to heal her own feminine after childhood trauma. She is the embodiment of what she teaches.

Frequently Asked Questions

You have the power to shift your
romantic destiny and attract dream
love with a Legacy King, and I am here
to guide you every step of the way.

Here is what people have said before you….

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It is time to take that leap of FAITH babe, trust that
God, Angels, Universe is supporting you… Your wildest
dreams are waiting on you to say YES to the call.

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