SECURE, CHOSEN & ADORED
with Vanessa Nance
Master Your Nervous System, Heal your Attachment Style and Break the Cycle of Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men
The First Step to Healing Your Relationship Patterns, Anxious Attachment & Over-functioning in Love starts here:
- Learn the in's and out's of Your Nervous System so you can learn to get into the driver's seat of it
- Learn to access deeper levels of safety (parasympathetic) in your body with somatic tools and recognize the somatic queues of deregulation
- Meet & Heal Your Inner Child : Develop True Emotional Availability Within Yourself
- Stop Overthinking & Feeling Anxious in Dating
- Heal Anxious or Avoidant Attachment Patterns
- Clear Worthiness Wounds
- Embody Deep Self Trust
- Heal Your Fear of Abandonment & Rejection
- Finally Break Free From Attracting Avoidant / Emotionally Unavailable Men
ENTER A MAGICAL HEALING SANCTUARY
WHERE THE POTENCY OF SOMATIC HEALING BRINGS YOU INTO CONNECTION WITH THE DEEPEST EMBODIMENT OF YOUR FEMININE
When you constantly fear rejection, feel anxious or feel unworthiness wounds, struggle to speak up for your needs, or self-abandon, it's because you have micro traumas stuck in your body that need to be released...
And for most women, that means Abandonment trauma..
Abandonment fear isn't about others leaving. It's the disconnection from yourself that happens when your nervous system learns, "I'm not safe unless someone else is here."
Healing happens when you reconnect to the parts of yourself you had to abandon to survive.
What parts of yourself did you have to abandon?
Your needs
Your feelings
Your preferences
Your values
Your boundaries
It's the reconnection to yourself that builds an inner security from within, so you stop feeling the need of anyone else to feel secure and enough.
When we release the trauma from your subconscious and train your Nervous System and body to feel safe, you transform your patterns at it's root.
The RESULTS ==>
Your boundaries strengthen
You no longer feel anxious to speak up for your needs
You clear the fear of rejection and abandonment
You STOP attracting Emotionally Unavailable men because you no longer equate vulnerability with lack of safety
You develop real emotional availability within yourself
You fell confident and worthy of love as you are
This is for the woman who...
- Wants to finally break free from a painful pattern of feeling unchosen in love
- Wants to forever heal her pattern of attracting Avoidant & Emotionally Unavailable Men
- Wants to finally TRUST herself fully and make confident empowered decisions
- Wants to break free from DRAINING patterns to move forward with clarity and massive self belief.
- Wants to feel confident and worthy to be claimed by a high caliber masculine man her heart deeply desires
- Wants to reconnect with her feminine energy and finally feel enough and worthy of love just as you are...
Hello my love, I'm honored your Soul called you here..
I'm Vanessa Nance...
I specialize in quickly getting to the ROOT cause of women's emotional, energetic and mental blocks, helping you heal the actual source of your struggle.
With a deep understanding of trauma (not only from my Graduate Studies in Clinical Psychology at Pacifica Graduate Institute, but also from massive investment in myself in the personal growth space), understanding of feminine embodiment work and somatic healing, and the unique challenges women face, my approach is direct, compassionate and tailored to you.
I have a proven track record of helping women break free from any and all past patterns, heal traumas (micro & macro), and reconnect with their inner strength and intuition.
The most common areas I work with are:
Self-Abandonment
People pleasing
Lack of boundaries
Insecure Attachment
Depression/Anxiety
Dating / Relationship (polarity)
Healing body image issues / self love
Any and all energetic and mental blocks
"I started working with Vanessa after leaving an abusive relationship with my ex husband. As a single mom I FELT a lot of insecurities trying to get back out there and date, especially around my "mom" body. I also didn't realize how I had a lot of self-abandonment patterns and self-esteem issues to heal, despite having done therapy right after my divorce. I feel like a new woman and am now in my dream relationship, we just celebrated 1 year with a trip to Singapore and Bali."
- Lauren (Tech Executive, former clinet)
"With Vanessa's somatic guidance I was able to address a "thorn" (painful childhood memory) that has been the source of pain for 40 years.
We were able to extract the thorn and expel the debris around it.
And in its place send light and love and healing cleansing water.
I'm continuing to shake off debris this morning and feeling lighter and clearer and more radiant with each shake.
So grateful."
- Stacy (Marketing Executive, former client)
"I came to Vanessa after hiring therapists, hypnotists, studying psychology, attachment theory... Vanessa helped me heal my feminine on the deepest levels and especially my people pleasing patterns and the trauma I still had around my mother wound.
Vanessa helped me manifest true love, get in touch with my deepest desires, and get to know myself and my emotions better than any therapist or psychology book ever could. I met the man who is now my current boyfriend who is THE best man I have ever dated within1 month of finishing my healing work with Vanessa. Our families have become friends and this is truly the relationship I have been looking for for over 10 years."
- Stephanie, CEO Health & Fitness Space (former client)
Listen to Kat's transformational journey...
"My friends, my family, my colleagues have all noticed a difference in me, they are like, you seem peaceful, and calm and happy. like you seem embodied, a friend told me, and I thought like, wow, I feel different and I'm so grateful for that.
Listen to Evie's transformational journey...
From a devastating situationship to finally healing her abandonment wound with her father and attracting healthy love with a secure, emotionally available masculine man.
I need this too...The blocks you're dealing with have been with you for a long time.
Many times we don't even have conscious recollection of where they come from -- but the body remembers, the body keeps the score.
This is the power of early life regressions, hypnotherapy, energy work, and somatic healing.
Why traditional healing modalities like therapy, CBT, or EMDR don't get lasting results? Therapy and CBT keeps you in your head, and EMDR only works to reprocess past memories from short term to long term, but none of these address the subconscious, body or deeper feminine energy healing.
This is when results becomes sustainable & embodied for you, and for your feminine.
WHAT'S INCLUDED?
Five hours of video modules + hypnosis recordings for early life regression + 4 LIVE Coaching Calls on Sundays at 9:30AM PST / 11:30AM CST to take this embodiment even deeper for full integration and healing.
We begin October 12!
(Enrollment closes October 9!)
READY?
What You'll Learn inside
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Week 1: Group Call Sunday, October 12th at 9:30am PST
Introduction to the Nervous System, a Polyvagal informed approach:
A clear breakdown of the system running 95% of your life -- and the system that underpins how you attach. Learn how to get into the driver's seat of your Nervous System by understanding how it actually works.
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Learn how to create internal safety so that your body no longer confuses space, distance, or rejection with danger.
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Build a foundation of calm and security from within, so you can finally experience what it feels like to rest in your own presence.
Week 2 +3: Group Call Sunday, October 19th & 26th at 9:30am PST
Core Wounds and Relational Ruptures:
Uncover the deep roots of your emotional reactions, trust issues, and overfunctioning, plus guided hypnosis to reprogram these Core Wounds in your Subconscious so they are no longer unconsciously driving your choices in romantic partners.
Week 4: Group Call Sunday, November 2 at 9:30am PST
Heal Your Heart & Inner Child + Understand Your Attachment Style
Meeting the parts of you that once felt abandoned, unseen, or unloved. These parts still carry the old fears and often drive your present choices. Together we will:
- Reconnect with your inner child and build a safe, nurturing relationship with yourself.
- Learn how to listen to and honor the needs of your most vulnerable parts instead of silencing them
- Develop the ability to be with your emotions, to embrace vulnerability, and to stop betraying yourself when fear arises.
- Reprogram your Love Blueprint, your Love Blueprint is the operating system or database of all past memories around love that your nervous system and subconscious references when choosing a partner. If this is not reprogrammed, we continue to attract partners that mirror back to us our feelings of abandonment, needing to earn or perform for love, or however we experienced love as a child from our primary caregivers.
This is a rare opportunity to get access to some of my most advanced healings that have never been made accessible at this level.
The same healing work that has already helped hundreds of women transform their love lives.
Bonus: Frequency Clearings to support you in embodying healthy boundaries, clear hyper-independence, and receive like a Queen...
What is Somatic Hypnotherapy & are you a candidate...?
Through Vanessa's signature somatic hypnotherapy approach, early life regression and deep understanding of feminine embodiment, Vanessa will guide you to uncover and release the micro-traumas and subconscious blocks holding you back, rewire your inner programming, bring safety back to your body, and awaken the truth of who you really are -- a Magnetic Feminine Queen, completely worthy of devotional love.
Hypnosis works with the power of the subconscious mind to change habits and behaviors. The subconscious mind is considered to be the source or root of many of our behaviors, emotions, attitudes and motivations. Hypnosis is believed to be a powerful tool for accessing the subconscious mind and creating improvements in our lives.
Vanessa and her work can support you to heal key areas such as:
- Fear of abandonment / rejection
- Anxious or Avoidant attachment wounds
- Fear of vulnerability or speaking up for your needs
- Release blocks to receiving
- Heal and Release Self-Worth wounds
- Clear Self Abandonment Patterns and bring your boundaries online as self-love becomes embodied
- Process Relationship grief and toxic dynamics
What others have said about somatic hypnotherapy, feminine energy healing, early life regression & inner child healing with Vanessa...
Yes, I'm ready to be Securely Chosen & Adored!
By the end of Secure, Chosen and Adored:
You will have:
Gained clarity on the ROOT of your most pressing issues / block(s)
Broken free from old patterns and self-sabotage with tools, strategy, and confidence
Cleared blocks & learned how to set clear intentions for the future you want to create
Deepened your connection to your feminine energy
Deepened your connection to your emotional self, body and intuition
Feeling confident & supported in moving forward
SECURE, CHOSEN AND ADORED
4 WEEKS TO HEAL YOUR ATTACHMENT STYLE AND ABANDONMENT WOUND AT IT'S ROOT
AND NEVER ATTRACT AVOIDANT or EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN AGAIN
Enrollment Closes October 9!
FOR THE WOMAN WHO KNOWS THAT TO FEEL SECURE, CHOSEN & ADORED IN LOVE, IS HER BIRTHRIGHT AS A WOMAN...
Enrollment closes on October 9 at 6PM CST
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