What Are Men Reflecting to You?
We don't choose partners randomly.
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We choose partners that feel familiar to us - based how we think and feel about ourselves and our earliest childhood imprint of love.
So when the same kind of man keeps showing up in your dating life -- it isn't random. It's your subconscious to still choosing men from an outdated love blueprint.
Men mirror our relationship to ourself, our needs, our beliefs about love and our internalized sense of self worth.
When your identity in love is shaped by unresolved childhood wounds, past relationship dynamics, and an outdated sense of self, you unintentionally attract men who match those patterns.
This is not mindset coaching.
Not therapy.
Not Surface Level Dating TipsÂ
This is an shift to your Magnetic Queen Identity that Re-Aligns Your Internal Sense of Self Worth & Nervous System to Match the Type of Healthy, Emotionally Available, Masculine Man Your Heart Desires.
When your patterns shift, when your energy aligns to your Magnetic Feminine essence, the wrong men fall away, and the right men recognize you instantly.
Your love life changes when you change on the inside.
Hundreds of women have gone from frustrating & painful patterns in love into being FULLY CHOSEN.
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What will it take to finally secure DREAM LOVE?
You've gone to therapy, read "The 5 Love Languages", and downloaded that dating app your friend said she met her husband on.
But deep down, you still donât feel safe in love. Your inner protector is still getting activated, you show up guarded and hyper-vigilant that this man will hurt you like the last -- pushing away the very thing you say you want or not feeling safe to trust that love will stay.Â
And youâre feeling burnt out and exhausted by dates that go nowhere, and still not attracting men at your level.
You still find yourself:
â Drawn to men who feel electric at first⌠but turn cold once you start to open your heart
â Over-giving in the hopes that it will secure his love
â Guarding your heart, afraid that expressing your feelings will âscare him offâ
â Nervously checking your phone 10x a day for a sign heâs still interested, developing a clingy energy he can feelÂ
â Wondering if maybe youâre too much or not enough⌠or if incredible love just isnât meant for you
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Attracting Dream Love is effortless when you embody your Magnetic Queen Identity
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You need a full-blown identity reset at the level of your subconscious Self Concept and refinement of the relationship skills that inspire powerful men to RISE to meet you.
What if I told you that there is a secret to inspiring masculine devotional love⌠and that you already have it within you?
The reason you don't have the dream love you want is because you need to SHIFT at the level of your subconscious mind and nervous system.
We don't manifest from our mouth, we manifest from our FREQUENCY. Your body is either in safety and receivership, or self-protection and defense mode.
You cannot mindset your way to healthy love without addressing the chronic survival response your body has been operating from and outdated self concept based on old wounds and past traumas.
That is where deep Subconscious Identity Reset work meets you -- and healthy love finds you.
When You Heal at the Subconscious Level, This Becomes You:
- You begin to truly experience that there is an abundance of good men in the worldÂ
- You feel like men yearn to see all of you and can hold all of you
- You begin to embody healthy boundaries as a way of being and effortlessly start to attract higher quality menâŚ
- You feel completely worthy of being chosen on the inside and are no longer stuck in patterns of longing for men who cannot fully meet your heart or needsâŚ
- It finally feels safe to be vulnerable and open your heart with a man as the emotional intimacy deepensâŚÂ
- You attract men who can hold space for your inner world and love your vulnerability..
- You start attracting men who are also looking for their life partner and tell you this from the first date, attracting men who are emotionally open and vulnerable becomes your new normâŚ
- You know that it is your sacred responsibility to speak your needs so that the masculine can step up for you, and you now feel safe to do soâŚ
- You relish in surrendering into your feminine, letting go of control and allowing strong masculine men to take the leadâŚ
- You feel so deliciously worthy of men who are at your level (no more dating down) and these men start showing up in your lifeâŚ
Beautiful Queen,
You Are Coded for Divine Union
The real issue isnât that you havenât done enough healing
Itâs that the healing youâve done didnât touch the part of you thatâs still bracing for love to hurt.
Thatâs why we donât do surface-level here.
Inside Magnetic Queen Identity Reset, we go to the root.
⥠We rewire your subconscious
⥠Restore your nervous system to safety
⥠And awaken the fully expressed woman withinâradiant, receptive, and ready to be devotionally met
Because dream love doesnât come from working harder.
It comes from becoming the woman who is already a match for it.
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âHonestly, this relationship I have now, I canât compare it to any of the boys I dated before. I feel safe. I feel provided for. He plans the dates, books the hotels, fully provides for me, and holds space for my emotions. I feel like Iâm finally dating a man⌠and I can fully be in my feminine.â
- Aga
Introducing
 MAGNETIC QUEEN IDENTITY RESET
A journey with your expert love coach, Vanessa Nance, to heal your heart, embody your feminine magnetism, rise like the phoenix that you are, and quantum leap into love.
What You Get Inside:
⨠BONUS WHEN YOU PAY IN FULL: Private 1:1 Coaching Call with Vanessa (Priceless!)
An intimate 90-minute breakthrough session where we dive deep into your unique love blueprint, identify your specific subconscious blocks, and go deep into your body, subconscious and nervous system for the most advanced healing.
PROGRAM VALUE: PRICELESS
What would being with your dream man by this time next year mean to you?
It's time to step into the Magnetic Queen Identity that Attracts Dream Love
Looking for 1:1 VIP Support?
If you're feeling called to go even deeper in your feminine embodiment journey, I offer a limited number of women the opportunity to work with me privately alongside the group program.
What's included:
- 3 months of intimate support and guidance
- 12 private coaching calls for personalized breakthrough and Identity workÂ
- Private voice messaging access for real-time support between sessions
- Deeper subconscious hypnotherapy to release the blocks holding you back from receiving the high caliber masculine man of your dreamsÂ
This intimate container is for the woman who knows she's ready to quantum leap into her queendom and wants the deepest level of support as she transforms.
Apply for Private Coaching Track - only 3 spots availableThis is by application only to ensure perfect alignment. The majority of women experience profound transformation through the group program alone (the written testimonials on this page are all from women who did group coaching)- but if you're feeling the call for deeper support, let's explore if this is meant for you.
Become the Magnetic Feminine Queen who attracts & builds extraordinary love with a King!
Listen to Sophia's transformational journey
Sophia joined Magnetic Queen in the throes of heartbreak. She says, âI used to attract men who breadcrumbed, rejected, and refused to commit, and I blamed myself, thinking I was too broken."  To now in her dream relationship with a man who adores her and cherishes her heart...
Listen to more testimonials HEREListen to Aga's transformational journey
Sophia joined Magnetic Queen after a painful pattern of only ever attracting men on their feminine side who wanted her to lead. Healing her hyper-independence and the chronic over activation of her nervous system was a big part of her reconnecting back to her Magnetic Queen Identity in dating & relationships so she could become a match to the healthy Secure masculine.
Listen to more testimonials HEREThis Proven Methodology Will Support You To:
âď¸ Embody your next level Magnetic Queen Identity so you can receive safe, supportive love your subconscious no longer resists
âď¸ Stop overworking to earn what you already deserve
âď¸Â Stop dating down and start attracting handsome, successful, marriage minded men at your level of your internal self worth rises
âď¸Â No longer hold back expressing your needs or feelingsÂ
âď¸ Master the art of attraction with driven, masculine, commitment-minded men
âď¸ Become his soulmate through creating soul intimacy that has him giving you his heart
âď¸ Heal your relationship with your own heart, release old trauma and return to your innate essence
âď¸ Step into your Queenship and powerful self-worth as a high-value womanÂ
When you master these skills:
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- He'll text you daily with genuine interest in your life
- He'll plan thoughtful dates without prompting
- He'll introduce you to friends and make you a real part of his life
- He'll initiate exclusivity conversations within two to three months
- He'll freely express his feelings rather than making you guessÂ
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âWhen we first started working together I was in the throes of heartbreak. I realized I had both mother and father wounds to heal because I had a pattern of dating more Peter Pan type men, very boyish, childish, and kind of soft and feminine and needing me to be there mom, that was my recent dynamic, and oscillating with men who were more masculine but completely emotionally unavailable.â
To Present day: âTo have this super high caliber, masculine, successful, man come into my life where we have such a beautiful connection just makes me feel really good. Iâm like, Oh my God, they do exist!â
- Kat
âI spent 8 to 10 years avoiding dating because I was terrified of vulnerability⌠now Iâm in a relationship where my body relaxes, I feel safe, seen, and I can actually let love in.â
- Katherine
âI used to attract men who breadcrumbed, rejected, and refused to commit, and I blamed myself, thinking I was too broken. Now, Iâm in a committed relationship with a man who makes me feel safe, seen, and cherished⌠and for the first time, I can just relax and be in my feminine.â
- Sophia
About your Expert Love Coach
Vanessa Nance is a trauma informed relationship and intimacy expert with graduate level training in Clinical Psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute in Santa Barbara, California with a Bachelor of Arts from UC Berkeley.
Vanessa has committed to extensive personal work to overcome her own childhood emotional wounds and brings a wealth of experiential knowledge to her clients.
Vanessa has coached female entrepreneurs, Fortune-500 technology executives, top female real estate agents, lawyers, and more.
She has personally helped hundreds of these women go from burnt out and over-working in their masculine energy to soulmate bliss and feel a deeper connection to themselves and their feminine energy than ever before.
Most feminine energy courses will teach you that feminine embodiment means doing a womb healing session and dancing, while that might be fun (and maybe something to do to amplify your feminine once you've done real healing work), it's not going to shift the needle and get you tangible results in how you relate in your romantic relationships and the type of men you attract... Vanessa knows what real inner work looks like and takes because she has had to walk this path herself. She is the embodiment of what she teaches.
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The Universe mirrors back your level of commitment to yourself.
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When you commit to this level of sacred inner work, you embody your Radiant Feminine Queen identity so completely that devotional love flows to you as naturally as breath.
Your frequency shifts. Your energy transforms. And suddenly, the love you've been seeking starts seeking you.
The question isn't whether you're worthy of this love, Queen. You were born worthy.
The question is: Are you ready to commit to yourself as deeply as you desire him to commit to you?
Your king is waiting. Your Divine Union is calling.
Will you answer?
Your Soulmate is waiting for you to say YES to the call....