You’re successful, self-aware, and have done "inner work" — yet you keep attracting emotionally unavailable or passive men.

By day, you're a successful, ambitious, career-driven woman. Hold it all together. But by night, you want to relinquish control.

When it comes to love, desire and intimacy…

that same energy that makes you brilliant in business, can keep you blocked, guarded, or over-functioning in love.

You don’t want to be the boss with a man.

You're done being the one who plans the dates, who leads, who attracts men who want you to pay or go 50/50, or require you to hold the masculine containment of the relationship.

You want to finally feel safe to soften into the arms of a man who can take charge, who tells you, "I got you babe," so you can finally let go, receive and feel supported.

I AM READY TO RECEIVE

**Deep down you want to soften. You want to feel held. You want to trust a man's leadership again.**

**You want to melt into your feminine, your sensuality, your surrender... without losing your power.**

You're successful, self-aware, and emotionally intelligent, you're not new to "inner work"-- yet you notice a pattern in your love life of repeatedly attracting or dating emotionally unavailable, avoidant, bread-crumbing or overly passive men where you end providing for him, directing & making the decisions.

You are ready for a long-term committed relationship, yet despite doing "everything right" you still find yourself not being claimed by a commitment ready man.

You find yourself starting to believe that:

“The dating scene is trash.”
“Men these days just aren’t emotionally available.”
“Dating apps suck.”
“All the good ones are taken."

While these explanations feel logical, they are keeping you stuck and overlooking the power of you coming into full inner alignment: your heart unguarded, emotionally open, reconnected to your feminine essence and your internal self-concept aligned to feel fully worthy of the caliber of man your heart truly desires.

The Embodied Feminine Woman & Date to Engagement is where you shift from, "I feel like giving up, trying to doing it all alone" to "I'm available to be loved, held, and led."

When You Master Polarity, Attracting Dream Love With A Top 1% Masculine Man Becomes Your Reality

The same high achieving, take charge identity that made you successful in your career is unconsciously driving your dating behavior and collapsing polarity with the kind of driven, ambitious, masculine man your heart craves.

What if I told you that there is a secret to inspiring masculine devotional love… and that you already have it within you?

Men are not failing you. They are merely responding to the energy, structure, and boundaries you are unconsciously leading from. While your hyper-independence has helped you reach staggering career success -- in your love life, it leads you to feel that it's not safe to be taken care of by others (especially men), and that you have to do it all alone.

It's time for this to change.

It's not that you're too masculine, or that you're too ambitious or successful (those qualities are amazing), you're just in protective mode in love. And it's left you feeling exhausted and continually attracting emotional unavailable, passive men or men with wounded or undeveloped masculine energy where you have to step in as the primary giver, planner and leader.

The truth: high achieving women must learn a different way to date, because the traits that built your career won't build polarity with a top 1% masculine man.

You are the Boss in the Boardroom, but your deepest desire to is to be the Surrendered Lover in the Bedroom.

You're ready for a man who can hold a healthy masculine frame including: presence, attunement to your feelings, accountability, emotional stability, leadership & a solid backbone... but in order to attract this type of man, you must feel safe internally to let your guard down and understand the keys to how to emotionally bond to a masculine man.

You cannot mindset your way to healthy love without addressing the subconscious protective mechanisms that have been blocking the very love you say you want. This is why it's Feminine Embodiment work.

Hundreds of women have gone from frustrating & painful patterns in love into being FULLY CHOSEN.

When You Heal at the Emotional, Subconscious & Energetic Levels,

You Become the Woman...

Who can command a boardroom at 10am, and melt into your lover by 8pm
Who leads in life without micromanaging every detail in love
Who is powerful, soft, magnetic and deeply desired
Who feels safe to let a man see all of her, the messy & imperfect and has dropped the mask...
Who knows how to stay rooted in feminine receptivity without collapsing into passivity.

Who feels completely worthy of being chosen on the inside…
Who feels at ease being vulnerable and opening her heart and knows how to build deep emotional attraction with a man
Who relishes in surrendering into her feminine, letting go of control and allowing strong masculine men to take the lead…
Who feels so deliciously worthy of men who are at her level (no more dating down), mothering men who don't have their life together or emotionally coddling men who haven't done their own healing...

Beautiful Queen, You Are Coded for Divine Union

The real issue isn’t that you haven’t done enough healing

It’s that the healing you’ve done hasn't shifted you to a state that can sustain Polarity with the kind of loving, successful, driven, devotional masculine man your heart yearns for.

Women of power tend to get stuck in the Yang polarity when all day is about making decisions, planning, executing big visions, and holding responsibilities.

I am here to help you remove the masks of control, perfection and walls when it comes to men -- walls that hide a deep hurt, fear and vulnerability that lives inside and tap into the wellspring of your feminine essence with men so you no longer end up being the weight-bearer in your relationships.

Inside The Embodied Feminine Woman & Date to Engagement, we go to the root.

⚡ We rewire your subconscious beliefs about yourself and love so you can surrender the Hyper Independent Identity that's kept you guarded and over-functioning, and finally feel safe to soften, receive and open your heart to love with the healthy, mature, self-aware, masculine

⚡ Restore your nervous system to safety and heal your attachment style, moving from Anxious or Fearful-Avoidant to Secure, so staying in your feminine feels effortless

⚡Embody feminine boundaries that make you irresistible to high caliber men and filter out the wrong ones fast

⚡ Awaken the fully expressed woman within—radiant, receptive, and ready to be devotionally met

⚡Have Expert Support All The Way to Attracting Soulmate Love

Because dream love doesn’t come from working harder.

It comes from becoming the woman who is already a match for it.

“Honestly, this relationship I have now, I can’t compare it to any of the boys I dated before. I feel safe. I feel provided for. He plans the dates, books the hotels, fully provides for me, and holds space for my emotions. I feel like I’m finally dating a man… and I can fully be in my feminine.”

- Aga

This is for the Woman who...

☑️ Are Successful High Performers, But struggle to switch off boss mode with men.

☑️ Are tired of attracting men they have to mother, initiate, manage or motivate

☑️ Crave sexual polarity. depth, masculine leadership and erotic tension

☑️ Desire to feel safe enough to receive, soften and let go of control

☑️ Want to stop showing up on dates like you are interviewing a potential employee

☑️ Are ready to be held, cherished & met by a man who has the capacity to be a masculine pillar

☑️ Need to get out of their head and back in their body and heart

Introducing

THE EMBODIED FEMININE WOMAN

A journey with your expert love coach, Vanessa Elizabeth, to heal your heart, embody your feminine magnetism, rise like the phoenix that you are, and quantum leap into love.

What You Get Inside:

✨ DREAM LOVE AWAITS✨

PROGRAM VALUE: PRICELESS

Join today and shift your painful patterns in love.

Ready to come home to your Radiance & Magnetism to attract dream love?

Book Your Free 15min Call with Vanessa HERE

(Due to the high touch nature of this program and the emotional healing work we do, we require a brief application process to ensure that this program can best support your specific needs as Vanessa only takes on clients she has 100% certainty she can get results)

Book a 15 minute FREE Clarity Call to see if we are aligned to work together in this intimate sacred space

Listen to Sophia's transformational journey

Sophia joined EFW in the throes of heartbreak. She says, “Before the program I had been involved in three very similar, I wouldn’t even call them relationships, failed love interests, where there was a lot of bread crumbing, and rejection and inconsistency, and it was very interesting to me that is was three men in a row, the last three love interests that I had were similar behaviors, and I knew it had to mean something.”

To now in her dream relationship with a man who adores her and cherishes her heart...

Listen to Kat's transformational journey

Kat also joined EFW in the throes of heartbreak.

“I was very much in my masculine in the relationship in every way that you can imagine, providing for him, directing us, making decisions about things, providing purpose and direction for our shared life, and I was feeling really exhausted by that dynamic and wanting something different. So when I came to you I was processing heartbreak, and recall needing to heal and get some help to not choose a similar type of relationship pattern again.”

"When we first started working together I realized I had both mother and father wounds to heal because I had a pattern of dating men who were kind of like a Peter Pan, more boyish and childish, maybe soft and kind of feminine-like, kind of needing me to be their mom, and also oscillating with dating men who were kind of more in a distant masculine identity, someone who was more masculine but completely emotionally unavailable, very volatile emotionally and distant from me. [...] And what I what needed to heal was those childhood wounds and experiences that led me to believe it wasn't safe to be taken care of by others, that that I was alone, that I needed to be hyper-independent..."

To Present day: “To have this super high caliber, masculine, successful, man come into my life where we have such a beautiful connection just makes me feel really good. I’m like, Oh my God, they do exist!”

Listen to Aga's transformational journey

Aga says, "I was this proud business woman, very independent, can do it all, can do it myself, boss babe, totally felt like I am rocking the vibe, I've got it all, and men will love it too, right? I took great pride in inviting men out on a date, or buying them a drink, obviously split the bill. It just felt uncomfortable in my body to be provided for and be paid for on a date. And these are the men I was attracting, they were kind of passive, as a result of that, they wanted me to take the next step, to initiate, they wouldn't even consider offering to pay, it was more like, we are just going to split, or my turn your turn. [...] The men would quickly lose interest, it wasn't good for me either. It was confusing, off. I wondered what am I doing wrong? Is it me? my body? It created so much doubt in me when I was dating from my masculine. They weren't ambitious. If they were they were probably more emotionally unavailable.

To after coaching and in her dream relationship, she says, “Honestly, this relationship I have now, I can’t compare it to any of the boys I dated before. I feel safe. I feel provided for. He plans the dates, books the hotels, fully provides for me, and holds space for my emotions. I feel like I’m finally dating a man… and I can fully be in in my feminine.”

Listen to more video testimonials HERE

Become the Magnetic Feminine Queen who attracts & builds extraordinary love with a King!

I am ready to receive extraordinary love

This Proven Methodology Will Teach You:

☑️ Embody your feminine energy to become irresistible to men
☑️ Master the art of attraction with driven, masculine, commitment-minded men
☑️ Become his soulmate through creating soul intimacy that has him giving you his heart
☑️ Heal your relationship with your own heart, releasing old trauma and returning to your innate essence
☑️ Step into your Queenship and powerful self-worth as a high-value woman

When you master these skills:

He'll text you daily with genuine interest in your life
He'll plan thoughtful dates without prompting
He'll introduce you to friends and make you a real part of his life
He'll initiate exclusivity conversations within two to three months
He'll freely express his feelings rather than making you guess

“When we first started working together I was in the throes of heartbreak. I realized I had both mother and father wounds to heal because I had a pattern of dating more Peter Pan type men, very boyish, childish, and kind of soft and feminine and needing me to be there mom, that was my recent dynamic, and oscillating with men who were more masculine but completely emotionally unavailable.”

- Kat

“I spent 8 to 10 years avoiding dating because I was terrified of vulnerability… now I’m in a relationship where my body relaxes, I feel safe, seen, and I can actually let love in.”

- Katherine

“I used to attract men who breadcrumbed, rejected, and refused to commit, and I blamed myself, thinking I was too broken. Now, I’m in a committed relationship with a man who makes me feel safe, seen, and cherished… and for the first time, I can just relax and be in my feminine.”

- Sophia

About your Expert Love Coach

Vanessa Elizabeth Nance is a trauma informed relationship and intimacy expert with graduate level training in Clinical Psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute in Santa Barbara, California with a Bachelor of Arts from UC Berkeley.

Vanessa has committed to extensive personal work to overcome her own childhood emotional wounds and brings a wealth of experiential knowledge to her clients.

Vanessa has coached female entrepreneurs, Fortune-500 technology executives, top female real estate agents, lawyers, and more.

She has personally helped hundreds of these women go from burnt out and over-working in their masculine energy to soulmate bliss and feel a deeper connection to themselves and their feminine energy than ever before.

Most feminine energy courses will teach you that feminine embodiment means doing a womb healing session and dancing, while that might be fun (and maybe something to do to amplify your feminine once you've done real healing work), it's not going to shift the needle and get you tangible results in how you relate in your romantic relationships and the type of men you attract... Vanessa knows what real inner work looks like and takes because she has had to walk this path herself. She is the embodiment of what she teaches.

The Universe mirrors back your level of commitment to yourself.

When you commit to this level of sacred inner work, you embody your Radiant Feminine Queen identity so completely that devotional love flows to you as naturally as breath.

Your frequency shifts. Your energy transforms. And suddenly, the love you've been seeking starts seeking you.

The question isn't whether you're worthy of this love, Queen. You were born worthy.

The question is: Are you ready to commit to yourself as deeply as you desire him to commit to you?

Your king is waiting. Your Divine Union is calling.

Will you answer?

Book Your 15min Complimentary Clarity Call HERE