Youâre successful, self-aware, and have done inner work â yet you keep attracting emotionally unavailable or passive men.
By day, you're a successful, ambitious, career-driven woman. Hold it all together. But by night, you want to relinquish control.
When it comes to love, desire and intimacyâŚ
that same energy that makes you brilliant in business, can keep you blocked, guarded, or over-functioning in love.
You donât want to be the boss with a man.
You're done being the one who plans the dates, who leads, who attracts men who want you to pay or go 50/50, or require you to hold the masculine containment of the relationship.
You want to finally feel safe to soften into the arms of a man who can take charge, who tells you, "I got you babe," so you can finally let go, receive and feel supported.
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Deep down you want to soften. You want to feel held. You want to trust a man's leadership again.
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You want to melt into your feminine, your sensuality, your surrender... without losing your power.
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You're successful, self-aware, and emotionally intelligent, you're not new to "inner work"-- yet you repeatedly attract emotionally unavailable, avoidant, love-bombing or overly passive men.
You are ready for a long-term committed relationship, yet despite doing "everything right" you still find yourself not being claimed by a commitment ready man.
You find yourself starting to believe that:
- âThe dating scene is trash.â
- âMen these days just arenât emotionally available.â
- âDating apps suck.â
- âAll the good ones are taken."
While these explanations feel logical, they are keeping you stuck and overlooking the power of you coming into full inner alignment: your heart unguarded, emotionally open, reconnected to your feminine essence and your internal self-concept aligned to feel fully worthy of the caliber of man your heart truly desires.Â
The Embodied Feminine Woman & Date to Engagement is where you shift from, "I feel like giving up, trying to doing it all alone" to "I'm available to be loved, held, and led."
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Attracting Dream Love is effortless when you embody your Magnetic Queen Identity
You need a full-blown identity reset and refinement of the relationship & polarity skills that inspire powerful masculine men to RISE to meet you.
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What if I told you that there is a secret to inspiring masculine devotional love⌠and that you already have it within you?
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The reason you don't have the dream love you want is because you need a complete emotional and energetic SHIFT at the level of your subconscious mind, nervous system, body and heart.
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You're not too masculine, you're just in protective mode. And it's left you feeling exhausted and continually attracting emotional unavailable men and passive men where you are the primary giver, planner and leader.
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The truth: high achieving women must learn a different way to date, because the traits that built your career won't build polarity with a top 1% masculine man.
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You are ready for a man who can hold a healthy masculine frame including: presence, attunement to your feelings, accountability, emotional stability, leadership & a solid backbone... but in order to attract this type of man, you must feel safe internally to let your guard down and understand the keys to how to emotionally bond to a masculine man.
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You cannot mindset your way to healthy love without addressing the subconscious protective mechanisms that have been blocking the very love you say you want. This is why it's Feminine Embodiment work.
Hundreds of women have gone from frustrating & painful patterns in love into being FULLY CHOSEN.
When You Heal at the Emotional, Subconscious & Energetic Levels,
You Become the Woman...
- Who can command a boardroom at 10am, and melt into your lover by 8pm
- Who leads in life without micromanaging every detail in love
- Who is powerful, soft, magnetic and deeply desired
- Who feels safe to let a man see all of her, the messy & imperfect and has dropped the mask...
- Who knows how to stay rooted in feminine receptivity without collapsing into passivity.
- Who feels completely worthy of being chosen on the insideâŚ
- Who feels at ease being vulnerable and opening her heart and knows how to build deep emotional attraction with a manÂ
- Who relishes in surrendering into her feminine, letting go of control and allowing strong masculine men to take the leadâŚ
- Who feels so deliciously worthy of men who are at her level (no more dating down), mothering men who don't have their life together or emotionally coddling men who haven't done their own healing...
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Beautiful Queen, You Are Coded for Divine Union
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The real issue isnât that you havenât done enough healing
Itâs that the healing youâve done hasn't shifted you to a state that can sustain Polarity with the kind of loving, successful, driven, devotional masculine man your heart earns for.
Women of power tend to get stuck in the Yang polarity when all day is about making decisions, planning, executing big visions, and holding responsibilities.
I am here to help you remove the masks of control, perfection and walls, when it comes to men, that hide the deep hurt and vulnerability that lives inside and tap into the wellspring of your feminine essence with men so you no longer end up being the weight-bearer in your relationships.
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Inside The Embodied Feminine Woman & Date to Engagement, we go to the root.
⥠We rewire your subconscious to reset your self-concept to your Magnetic Queen identity in love and re-write your love blueprint (the operating system from which you attract love)
⥠Restore your nervous system to safety and heal your attachment style so staying in your feminine feels effortless
âĄEmbody feminine boundaries that make you irresistible to high caliber men and filter out the wrong ones fast
⥠Awaken the fully expressed woman withinâradiant, receptive, and ready to be devotionally met
âĄHave Expert Support All The Way to Attracting Soulmate Love
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Because dream love doesnât come from working harder.
It comes from becoming the woman who is already a match for it.
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âHonestly, this relationship I have now, I canât compare it to any of the boys I dated before. I feel safe. I feel provided for. He plans the dates, books the hotels, fully provides for me, and holds space for my emotions. I feel like Iâm finally dating a man⌠and I can fully be in my feminine.â
- Aga
This is for the Woman who...
âď¸Â Are Successful High Performers, But struggle to switch off boss mode with men.
âď¸ Are tired of attracting men they have to mother, initiate, manage or motivateÂ
âď¸ Crave sexual polarity. depth, masculine leadership and erotic tension Â
âď¸ Desire to feel safe enough to receive, soften and let go of control
âď¸ Want to stop showing up on dates like you are interviewing a potential employee
âď¸ Are ready to be held, cherished & met by a man who has the capacity to be a masculine pillar
âď¸ Need to get out of their head and back in their body and heart
Introducing
 THE EMBODIED FEMININE WOMAN
A journey with your expert love coach, Vanessa Elizabeth, to heal your heart, embody your feminine magnetism, rise like the phoenix that you are, and quantum leap into love.
What You Get Inside:
⨠DREAM LOVE AWAITSâ¨
PROGRAM VALUE: PRICELESS
Join today and shift your painful patterns in love.
Ready to come home to your Radiance & Magnetism to attract dream love?
Book Your Free 15min Call with Vanessa HEREÂ (Due to the high touch nature of this program and the emotional healing work we do, we require a brief application process to ensure that this program can best support your specific needs as Vanessa only takes on clients she has 100% certainty she can get results)
Listen to Sophia's transformational journey
Sophia joined EFW in the throes of heartbreak. She says, âI used to attract men who breadcrumbed, rejected, and refused to commit, and I blamed myself, thinking I was too broken."  To now in her dream relationship with a man who adores her and cherishes her heart...
Listen to more video testimonials HEREListen to Kat's transformational journey
Kat also joined EFW in the throes of heartbreak. She was dating a man more on his feminine side, doing a lot of "mothering". She realized she had deeper mother / father wound healing to do and deeper feminine energy work.  Since graduating her feminine energy is a force and she is magnetizing high caliber men left and right.
Listen to more video testimonials HEREBecome the Magnetic Feminine Queen who attracts & builds extraordinary love with a King!
This Proven Methodology Will Teach You:
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âď¸ Embody your feminine energy to become irresistible to men
âď¸ Master the art of attraction with driven, masculine, commitment-minded men
âď¸ Become his soulmate through creating soul intimacy that has him giving you his heart
âď¸ Heal your relationship with your own heart, releasing old trauma and returning to your innate essence
âď¸ Step into your Queenship and powerful self-worth as a high-value womanÂ
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When you master these skills:
- He'll text you daily with genuine interest in your life
- He'll plan thoughtful dates without prompting
- He'll introduce you to friends and make you a real part of his life
- He'll initiate exclusivity conversations within two to three months
- He'll freely express his feelings rather than making you guess Â
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âWhen we first started working together I was in the throes of heartbreak. I realized I had both mother and father wounds to heal because I had a pattern of dating more Peter Pan type men, very boyish, childish, and kind of soft and feminine and needing me to be there mom, that was my recent dynamic, and oscillating with men who were more masculine but completely emotionally unavailable.â
To Present day: âTo have this super high caliber, masculine, successful, man come into my life where we have such a beautiful connection just makes me feel really good. Iâm like, Oh my God, they do exist!â
- Kat
âI spent 8 to 10 years avoiding dating because I was terrified of vulnerability⌠now Iâm in a relationship where my body relaxes, I feel safe, seen, and I can actually let love in.â
- Katherine
âI used to attract men who breadcrumbed, rejected, and refused to commit, and I blamed myself, thinking I was too broken. Now, Iâm in a committed relationship with a man who makes me feel safe, seen, and cherished⌠and for the first time, I can just relax and be in my feminine.â
- Sophia
About your Expert Love Coach
Vanessa Elizabeth Nance is a trauma informed relationship and intimacy expert with graduate level training in Clinical Psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute in Santa Barbara, California with a Bachelor of Arts from UC Berkeley.
Vanessa has committed to extensive personal work to overcome her own childhood emotional wounds and brings a wealth of experiential knowledge to her clients.
Vanessa has coached female entrepreneurs, Fortune-500 technology executives, top female real estate agents, lawyers, and more.
She has personally helped hundreds of these women go from burnt out and over-working in their masculine energy to soulmate bliss and feel a deeper connection to themselves and their feminine energy than ever before.
Most feminine energy courses will teach you that feminine embodiment means doing a womb healing session and dancing, while that might be fun (and maybe something to do to amplify your feminine once you've done real healing work), it's not going to shift the needle and get you tangible results in how you relate in your romantic relationships and the type of men you attract... Vanessa knows what real inner work looks like and takes because she has had to walk this path herself. She is the embodiment of what she teaches.
The Universe mirrors back your level of commitment to yourself.
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When you commit to this level of sacred inner work, you embody your Radiant Feminine Queen identity so completely that devotional love flows to you as naturally as breath.
Your frequency shifts. Your energy transforms. And suddenly, the love you've been seeking starts seeking you.
The question isn't whether you're worthy of this love, Queen. You were born worthy.
The question is: Are you ready to commit to yourself as deeply as you desire him to commit to you?
Your king is waiting. Your Divine Union is calling.