You're feminine energy isn't something you learn.
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It's something you uncover as you release the armor and protective shield around your heart and melt the layers of false conditioning that taught you love is something to earn, chase or prove yourself to obtain.
You are a beautiful, smart, successful woman. You have a rockstar career and everything going for you, the house, the nice car, the handbags, except the handsome, successful, loving, loyal, generous, kind man by your side.
Sometimes you wonder if maybe you are just "cursed" in love, that a dream relationship is for her but somehow not for you. And I'm here to tell you that is so far from the truth.
Sometimes you wonder, "Maybe I am just asking for TOO much." And I'm also here to tell you, that also isn't true. You aren't asking for too much. In fact, if you are anything like most women before they come to work with me, you probably aren't dreaming BIG enough.
You just haven't cleared the wounds that are still in the way of you receiving this type of healthy embodied masculine man into your life; and no one ever taught you the skills of how to emotionally bond to a masculine man to secure his devotion for a lifetime of commitment.
The Embodied Feminine Woman is NOT just another woo-woo feminine energy course, where we pretend healing means dancing and a womb meditation.
That is simply not going heal the real emotional blocks and self-worth wounds that are at the root of your painful patterns in love. This is deep somatic, nervous system, core wound, & Love Blueprint level healing -- because mindset, dancing or another womb meditation isn't enough to attract healthy, dream love from Secure man if this has never been your reality before.
The Women inside the last Five Rounds of the Live Cohort have experienced massive results as you can see. This is what happens when you clear the deep rooted blocks keeping you stuck.
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Join the Waitlist HereHundreds of women have gone from frustrating & painful patterns in love into being FULLY CHOSEN.












This is for the woman who still finds herself:
â Drawn to men who feel electric at first⌠but turn cold once you start to open your heart
â Overgiving in the hope that it will secure his love
â Guarding your heart, afraid that expressing your feelings will âscare him offâ
â Nervously checking your phone 10x a day for a sign heâs still interested, developing a clingy energy he can feelÂ
â Wondering if maybe youâre too much or not enough⌠or if incredible love just isnât meant for you
â Knows she has some wounds that still get triggered and wants to heal them once and for all.
â Feels like when she tries to set boundaries, but always bends when the guilt kicks in.
â Feels disconnected from her body, feelings and intuition, and the version of her that used to feel safe to feel ALIVE.
â Deep down, you still donât feel safe in love, you struggle to be vulnerable and express your feelings and needs to a man, and you know it's blocking building real emotional connection with High Caliber Men.
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âHonestly, this relationship I have now, I canât compare it to any of the boys I dated before. I feel safe. I feel provided for. He plans the dates, books the hotels, fully provides for me, and holds space for my emotions. I feel like Iâm finally dating a man⌠and I can fully be in my feminine.â
- Aga
Introducing
 THE EMBODIED FEMININE WOMAN

Listen to Sophia's transformational journey
Sophia joined EFW in the throes of heartbreak. She says, âI used to attract men who breadcrumbed, rejected, and refused to commit, and I blamed myself, thinking I was too broken."  To now in her dream relationship with a man who adores her and cherishes her heart...
Listen to more video testimonials HEREListen to Kat's transformational journey
Kat also joined EFW in the throes of heartbreak. She was dating a man more on his feminine side, doing a lot of "mothering". She realized she had deeper mother / father wound healing to do and deeper feminine energy work.  Since graduating her feminine energy is a force and she is magnetizing high caliber men left and right.
Listen to more video testimonials HEREWhat Youâll Learn Inside The Embodied Feminine Woman

Pillar 1:
Your Relationship Blueprint
Letâs journey into the core of your relationship history and unearth the patterns you have unconsciously been attracting & playing out. Heal your heart and release past exâs with advanced somatic tools and practices. Get radical clarity on the dream love you are calling in.

Pillar 2:
Clearing Family Dynamics and Generational Wounds
In this pillar, you will break free from dysfunctional patterns rooted in family and generational dynamics, learn to identify and heal âcore woundsâ or "origin wounds" inherited from your Family of Origin that you have been unconsciously operating out of and keeping you stuck in frustrating patterns in your love life.

Pillar 3:
Healing Your Inner Child & Rewriting Your Love Blueprint
This is where we rewrite the script. You will learn to heal your attachment style with advanced Nervous System regulation tools, and be guided through my most advanced inner child hypnosis and subconscious reprogramming tools to completely re-wire your subconscious mind for healthy love with emotionally available, commitment ready men.

Pillar 4:
Unlock Your Feminine Super Powers
Step into a world where your presence becomes a magnetic force field.
You will learn how to heal body image issues, tap into deeper levels of deservingness and self love, release patterns of "mothering" men, and unlock next level feminine receptivity (so you start receiving from abundant generous men at new levels!)

Pillar 5:
The Art of Feminine Communication
Communication is the heartbeat of relationships. Imagine mastering the subtle art of feminine expression, transforming your words into spells that create deep connections, understanding and intimacy. This Pillar is your key to turning every conversation into a bridge of profound connection. (And to finally get men effortlessly moving things off the apps to in-person dates!)

Pillar 6:
Feminine Magnetism in Love & Dating
In this pillar, you will learn the 9 tools to support you in dating from your feminine energy. Youâll discover how dating from your feminine energy effortlessly protects your heart and only allows in the most healthy masculine men. Learn how to build a deep emotional connection with a man to inspire his devotion, and how to write a magnetic feminine dating profile that will have you stand out to the most high-caliber men (if you choose to use apps) and feel empowered on your way to dream love with advanced mindset work.
This Proven Methodology Will Teach You:
âď¸ Embody your feminine energy to become irresistible to men
âď¸ Master the art of attraction with driven, masculine, commitment-minded men
âď¸ Become his soulmate through creating soul intimacy that has him giving you his heart
âď¸ Heal your relationship with your own heart, releasing old trauma and returning to your innate essence
âď¸ Step into your Queenship and powerful self-worth as a high-value womanÂ
When you master these skills:
- He'll text you daily with genuine interest in your life
- He'll plan thoughtful dates without prompting
- He'll introduce you to friends and make you a real part of his life
- He'll initiate exclusivity conversations within two to three months
- He'll freely express his feelings rather than making you guessÂ
âWhen we first started working together I was in the throes of heartbreak. I realized I had both mother and father wounds to heal because I had a pattern of dating more Peter Pan type men, very boyish, childish, and kind of soft and feminine and needing me to be there mom, that was my recent dynamic, and oscillating with men who were more masculine but completely emotionally unavailable.â To Present day: âTo have this super high caliber, masculine, successful, man come into my life where we have such a beautiful connection just makes me feel really good. Iâm like, Oh my God, they do exist!â
- Kat
âI spent 8 to 10 years avoiding dating because I was terrified of vulnerability⌠now Iâm in a relationship where my body relaxes, I feel safe, seen, and I can actually let love in.â
- Katherine
âI used to attract men who breadcrumbed, rejected, and refused to commit, and I blamed myself, thinking I was too broken. Now, Iâm in a committed relationship with a man who makes me feel safe, seen, and cherished⌠and for the first time, I can just relax and be in my feminine.â
- Sophia

About your Expert Love Coach
Vanessa Nance is a trauma informed relationship and intimacy expert with graduate level training in Clinical Psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute in Santa Barbara, California with a Bachelor of Arts from UC Berkeley.
Vanessa has committed to extensive personal work to overcome her own childhood emotional wounds and brings a wealth of experiential knowledge to her clients.
Vanessa has coached female entrepreneurs, Fortune-500 technology executives, top female real estate agents, lawyers, and more.
She has personally helped hundreds of these women go from burnt out and over-working in their masculine energy to soulmate bliss and feel a deeper connection to themselves and their feminine energy than ever before.
Most feminine energy courses will teach you that feminine embodiment means doing a womb healing session and dancing, while that might be fun (and maybe something to do to amplify your feminine once you've done real healing work), it's not going to shift the needle and get you tangible results in how you relate in your romantic relationships and the type of men you attract... Vanessa knows what real inner work looks like and takes because she has had to walk this path herself. She is the embodiment of what she teaches.