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What is your Relationship Signature?

Hello Love,

This Assessment is inspired by the work we do inside my monthly membership, Consciously Becoming. Use this Quiz to Learn what your predominate relationship pattern is.

Once you know your pattern, you can change it. Along with your results, you'll receive some journal prompts to help you shift the narrative, so you can begin choosing yourself. Right now. Today.

Important: Your Relationship Signature Profile will be sent to you via email. Be sure to keep your "Results Breakdown" tab open (provided at the end of the quiz) so that when you go read the email, you can identify your relationship type.

Click the button below to get started. 🌹

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Question 1 of 7

BE SURE TO CLICK THE "RESULTS BREAKDOWN" AT THE END OF THE QUIZ.

 

THEN CHECK YOUR EMAIL FOR A FULL BREAKDOWN OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP SIGNATURE.

 

1. When you start dating someone new, your primary focus is:

 

A

Option A: Making sure they like me, even if it means ignoring my needs.

B

Option B: Going super fast. Rushing the process because I get anxious with too much uncertainty.

C

Option C: Ignoring my life -- my friends, my hobbies, my family -- and making it all about the other person.

D

Option D: Sticking it out, even if things start to feel wrong. It's better than starting over.

E

Option E: Fantasizing at first about how perfect it all feels, but leaving at the first sign of discomfort.

Question 2 of 7

2. When you feel insecure in a relationship, you tend to:*

A

Option A; Do everything I can to be enough, even if it's exhausting.

B

Option B: Make their happiness my priority, even if it means losing touch with my own.

C

Option C: Focus on fixing whatever's wrong, so things feel stable again.

D

Option D: Become irritable and defensive, so I start fights.

E

Option E: Detach emotionally or leave before it gets worse.

Question 3 of 7

3. Which of these beliefs/thoughts sounds most like you?

A

Option A: "If they pick me, I’ll finally feel worthy of love."

B

Option B: "If they’re unhappy, I can’t be happy."

C

Option C: "I see how good they could be and can help them change. They just need support."

D

Option D: "This isn’t good. But leaving is harder."

E

Option E: "This feels scary. Better end hit now."

Question 4 of 7

 

4. When it comes to conflict or discomfort in a relationship, you: 

A

Option A: Ignore my needs to keep the peace and feel safe.

B

Option B: Abandon my hobbies and or friends as long as I need to focus on fixing things.

C

Option C: Try to repair everything right away, even if my partner is busy at work and can’t talk right away.

D

Option D: Wait and see, hoping it’ll improve with time, while still avoiding tough conversations.

E

Option E: End things or at least withdraw emotionally to avoid confusion.

Question 5 of 7

5. What typically makes you stay in a relationship you know isn’t good for you?

A

Option A: I just want to feel wanted and chosen

B

Option B: I don’t feel totally worthy if I’m not in a relationship.

C

Option C: I believe that they’ll change, and I can help them.

D

Option D: I’m used to being with them, and I’m afraid of starting all over again.

E

Option E: I don’t. I leave admittedly too fast.

Question 6 of 7

6. What scares you the most about relationships?*

A

Option A: Not being loved back.

B

Option B: Losing myself.

C

Option C: Ending up with someone who is wrong for me.

D

Option D: Losing freedom.

E

Option E: Ending up like my parents’ relationship.

Question 7 of 7

7. When you picture your ideal partnership, it looks like:

A

Option A: Being radically accepted and loved by them.

B

Option B: Having a lot of adventures together.

C

Option C: Being best friends. We do almost everything together.

D

Option D: Comfort, safety, predictably.

E

Option E: Freedom and peace. I’m very independent want to do my own things often.

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